Lutheran Grilled Cheese

February is birthday month in my family.  Both of my parents and both of my children have birthdays in February.  Last Saturday my son had his birthday party.  Here are some pictures of celebrations from my kids birthday’s.

First there is the princess cake….

Then there is the princess eating the cake

My little princess had a nice quiet family birthday.  We took her to Build a Bear and got her favorite dinner and had some cake.  It was a nice, simple celebration.

Next is my son’s cake.  It was a Star Wars themed party.  We went to Kidzclub to celebrate.  They did a great job!  Here is a picture of his cake…..

Here is the king blowing out his candles….

We had some great celebrations — memories were made, cake was eaten and presents were opened.  Happy Birthday!

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I love the blog This is why you’re fat. This blog is dedicated at showing pictures of food that makes you fat. We are not talking about cheese burgers or snicker bars. This is hard core fatting food.

Sometimes they have gems that make me think…..I could never eat this but I don’t blame someone for trying.  An example is the picture above that is called The Plowboy which includes “Ham, scrambled eggs and onions over a bed of homefries topped with sausage gravy, bacon, cheddar and Jack cheese!”  Now THAT’S a breakfast of champions.

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How do you know when something is good?

We say in the church all the time that “God is Good”.  What does that mean?

It doesn’t matter whether if we are talking about God, a work of art, a movie, a restaurant or the newest fashion design – how do we decide that something is “good”?  How do we decide if God is good?

When we talk about God, we read about the things that God has done for us, and continues to do for us in the Bible.  We learn more about our faith by attending church and talking with others.  This enables us to think about our faith and discern what is good and what is bad about what we believe.

Some people however just listen to the authority in their lives and not really think about what they personally believe.   They follow certain rules because some authority figure told them to do it, but they never took the time to think and pray about it for themselves.

Living a life based on second hand values isn’t living at all.  Saying the right things and doing the right things is nice but that can lead to simply “existing.”  To really live out our faith, we  must trust our own instincts and take the risk of stepping out of line now and then.

Questioning our values might seem like heresy to some.  However, we all do it at one point or another in our lives.  For example, when I was in college I questioned my faith.  I started to look at my life and I realized that I was baptized a Lutheran when I was a baby, I was raised in a Lutheran Church, I went to a Lutheran summer camp and I was attending a Lutheran College.  So was I a Lutheran because of my history or did I really want to be a Lutheran?  While I was questioning my denomination, I  also started to question my faith, did I really believe in God?

My answer to all my questions was “Yes!”

“Yes”, I was Lutheran because I was baptized and raised in the Lutheran Church, “yes” I did believe in the teachings of the Lutheran Church and I did embrace them as my own, and “yes” I did believe in God, I knew that my life would be unbearable if I did not believe in a loving God who was always there for me and who carried the burdens that seemed so hard for me to carry on my own.

Even though I have come to that conclution, it doesn’t mean that sometimes life is hard, that sometimes faith is hard.  Even recently when I look at the death and destruction in our world, I ask myself “where is God in all of this?” Then I see it…..I see God in the people,  dropping everything, traveling thousands of miles to help those in need, I see God in families giving up time in their busy weekends to help a stranger….I see God in my children as they run and play and make me smile…..I see God in the beauty that surrounds my world.  I see God in these places and many more — this is why I think, why I know that God is good.

My prayer is that when we say that we think something is good, when  we  like something, when we think something is “good”  we should think about the reasons.  This applies even when it comes to our faith.  We should not listen to the authorities blindly, but we should stop and think why we believe what we do, we should ask questions, talk with others and look…..where do we see God in the world, and think about how our faith impacts our lives.

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What do you think when you hear the phrase:  “You are a failure!”

More often than not we are afraid of failure, we don’t want to fail.  We may think that if we are going to do something and we are not going to succeed, why waste our time?

But we do fail….we are not perfect — But do some people fail more than others?  If so, why?

Perhaps the problem is that we are not afraid of failure, but somewhere deep inside of us we are afraid of success?

We see this in the Bible:

The Prophet Jonah chose to turn away from the great things God had planned for him.   Jonah eventually found himself eaten by a whale.

Most people who fear success find themselves consumed by regrets for things that might have been.

There are many reasons why we might turn away from the challenges that could bring us success, but it is usually because we just don’t believe we have what it takes to pull it off.  We don’t have the self confidence to really believe that we have the knowledge, skill set, or ability to get the job done.

But like the old saying says “you can do anything you put your mind too.”  That’s the key!

What does our mind say?  If we believe that we can’t get it done, then we won’t. However, if we believe that we not only can get the job done, but we were put in place for a reason, then we will get the job done with excellence.

They only way we can make this happen is to take “baby steps.”

For example, I am not really that handy around the house……well that’s the impression I have of myself right now.  I have been watching many hours of the DIY Network channel.  I have been learning alot about home projects.  I have a little more confidence in myself when it comes to projects around the house.

But before I start to build my outdoor room, or before I rip down my back porch and build a bigger and better one…..I am first going to start small and switch-out the shower head, and maybe build a bookcase in the kids room.  I am going to start small and start to have many small victories, build my confidence and learn more and more everyday.  I am going to take on risks and then gradually – step by step – up the ante.

So instead of going into a project, or going into life, with a negative view, with a mindset for failure, I believe we can all turn our thinking around. Believe in ourselves, know that we are called to be where we are, to do what we are doing and that believe that God will always be with us.

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I have talked a lot about Lutheranism, Leadership and other things on this blog.  I have not talked too much about grilled cheese.

I love grilled cheese, I always have and most likely always will.  It is such a simple sandwich — yet if you are creative, you can create a gourmet meal.

I have been inspired with the recent announcement of the The 1st 8th Annual Grilled Cheese Invitational.  Granted, this group is a little too much for me.  I love the concept but the execution is a little too “racy” for me.  I am more of a PG type person and this event is more of a R type event.

Anyway, I would love to take what they have done and instead of the local chili cook-off, to have a family friendly event.

The winner of the last 6 Grilled Cheese Invitationals is actually opening a grilled cheese restaurant!!  That is the coolest thing ever!

I am thinking about incorporating my love for grilled cheese more into this blog.  I want to include recipe’s and grilled cheese tips, and just general grilled cheese news.  If you have anything to pass along please do!

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Does your feelings about yourself have any influence on the way your body feels?

Don’t get me wrong,  I am not saying that modern medicine doesn’t have a place in our life.  However,  I do believe that our attitude has an impact on the way we feel mentally and physically.

Here in CNY we are getting close to the 100 inch mark for snowfall.  I accepted the fact that living in this area we are going to get a lot of snow, and I decided in the fall that I was not going to complain about snow from Thanksgiving to Easter.  I have a positive attitude about snow- I love snow between Thanksgiving and Easter!!  but after Easter, all bets are off!

So far, I have not become depressed because I have to clean off my car…….again!  The fact that it snowed almost everyday during the month of January did not bother me, because I accepted that snow is going to come.

When we are sick, and we have the mental model that our illness is only going to get worse then it is only natural that our body gets a strong death message. Next thing you know, we start going downhill fast.

However, when we educate ourselves about how to fight any illness, and we surround ourselves with support and love we have a better chance of getting better, faster.  That in addition to following what the doctors say (about medicine, diet or whatever else they suggest)  and affirm our healing constantly with words, pictures and emotions, I believe leads us not only on an easier road to recovery, but a quicker road as well.

I also believe that our faith plays a big part in our healing as well.  When we pray we are asking the one who created us, the one who knows our bodies better than we do; for healing and wholeness.  God, our creator is there for us in the good times and in the bad.

I have seen more and more, the people who reach out to the church in their time of need, are often the ones with a positive attitude.  They are the ones who look for the positive indications in their sickness or illness that things are going to get better.  I think one reason they are able to do this is because they are able to pray to God and let all their cares, all their worries in God’s hands and they trust that God will watch over them, protect and heal them.  Then they are able to live their lives in more of a positive and reassuring way.

I don’t think that it is coincidence that there is a connection between our ability to get better quickly and stay healthy longer the more that we have a hopeful and positive attitude about our health, and our reliance on God.

In the end we are the final authority on our bodies, and it is up to us to conclude what is best for us.

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