The Future

Looking at the future use to be very hard for me.  For the last 10 years I have had no idea where I was going to be from one year to the next.  All of the jobs I have held the past 10 years I knew was temporary and that has been hard.  But now I am in a situation I hope to be for a long time.  But I still look into the future.   There are things that I want to accomplish personally and professionally.

So I begin to wonder how do I close the gap between the reality that I am living now and the life I want in the future?   I do not think I am going to stay where I am forever,  but the life I am living right now is good, it is right for myself and my family.  Am I still going to be able to say that 10 years from now?  5 years from now?

My kids are getting older and there are some things in my life that are always changing, and some other things never seem to change much.

How about you?  Are you in a place in your life that you want to be or are you trapped in a life you don’t want, feeling stuck and unable to move? How much do you think about the future?

Try imagining the future…….What do you see?  Imagine it so vividly and specifically that you can actually see it. Then, take it even further. Hear it, taste it, feel it, walk around in it!

Where are you living?  Who are you with?  What are you doing? Is there a gap between where you are now and where you want to be?  Don’t think of that as a bad thing!  You see, it is this gap that releases your energy and creativity.

Once I took my first call as a pastor I thought that I needed to stop dreaming about the future, and start living in the present.  That is true, but I also need to think about the future not only personally, but for the church as well.  This future, this vision is what moves us. The gap, between the way things are and the way we want them to be, is that space where our drive, energy and creativity have room to ignite.  This energy and creativity moves us towards the place where we ant to be. Without a vision, a vivid picture of the future in the mind, there is no gap, and we will never discover our power, our purpose, and our mission.

What does your future look like?  Does it excite you? Does it scare you? Where are you headed?

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Road Trips

I love road trips.  I love the sense of adventure, the sense of unexpectedness. For most of my road trips I do try and make a plan of action, but after we leave –  more often than not plans change.

While, there are certain aspects of road trips that are the same,  the type of road trips has changed for me over the years.  When I was in college, a group of friends and I planned a road trip from our college in Iowa, to my home in Vermont, down to NYC and then back to Iowa, about 2,600 miles.  It was fun, it was adventurous and it was memorable.  Guys, traveling in a car, stopping where we needed too, not knowing what would happen day to day.  I will never forget it.

Last December, my family took a road trip.  We left our town in NY and drove Virginia for a friends wedding and then up to Vermont to visit my family and back home for a total of 1,485 miles.  We loved the wedding and we loved visiting my family, but traveling that much with two children under five has its challenges.  We stopped more, we planned more (and tried to keep on track), even though we wanted to keep some aspects of the trips adventuresome, you can’t do that  too much when you have two small children.

As I get older I start to ask myself…..am I too old for adventure, am I too old for road trips?  Am I too old for that kind of self-expression?  It’s hard to think that the old I get the worse this may be, I have always imagined retirement as a time when I will be traveling the US and the world with my wife.

The truth is that we don’t tend to see many role models of lively, intelligent old people in the media, I often think of the ventriloquist Jeff Dunham and his puppet “Walter the grumpy old man”.

The fact is that life expectancy is up from age 45 in 1900, to 80 for women and 74 for men in 2000. This means that things are changing both in the world and in the church. Of course, there is still the likelihood of some physical decline as we age, but many older people are discovering that their mental health is more important to them. They tend to shrug off their aches and pains and concentrate instead on growth and development in other areas.

They become much more spiritually aware and keenly interested in things outside of themselves. They want to be more active in a way that we are not use too.  They make their own choices, and stay involved with meaningful activities long after they “retire.”  Because let’s face it, no one ever really “retires” anymore.

So how do we minister to those who like to go on road trips and those who seem to slow down but never really do.  What do you do to stay active physically, mentally, and spiritually as you get older?  Or if you are younger, how do you imagine your “retirement?”

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Tell Me About Your God….

I was at a conference earlier this week for Lutheran pastors in their first three years of ministry who live in the northeast part of the United States.  It is one of those conferences that I really do not look forward going too.  One of the reasons is that I have so many things going on all the time and  it seems almost impossible to leave town for a week without something falling apart.  I also dearly miss my family when I am away for more than a few days.

But after I arrive on site, I unpack and I start to relax.  Then I am glad that I took the time to go.  My time away helps me regain energy and enthusiasm for ministry. I usually pick up one or two ideas to use in my ministry, my time away provides me an opportunity to reconnect with friends and colleagues and a chance to make some new connections.

The title of the conference I attended was Embodying Hope for an Anxious World. How do we as a church preach a gospel of hope and renewal when we are surrounded by things that make us anxious?  Whether it’s the economy, world conflicts or swine flu, the anxiety level is rising in everyone!

Our keynote speaker was Terry Leib.  Terry is an Associate in Ministry, and director of Family Life Services, a part of Diakon Lutheran Social Ministry in northeastern Pennsylvania.  Terry was a great speaker and really got me thinking about not how the world makes me (and everyone around me) anxious, but in fact I become anxious because of my reaction to the events happening in the world.

He also used the phrase “God image” quite a bit.  I found this idea interesting and something that I really want to use in my ministry.  Instead of going to people and telling them about the God that I know, a God of love, forgiveness, grace, and truth.  I first want to get a sense of who God is for other people.

Tell me about your God….. who is your God? what characteristics does your God have?  What does your God do? What does your God say? How evolving is your God?  With an idea of who your God is, then and only then can we move forward together and have a conversation about God.

For some, thinking about a God of love can be hard, because the only thing love has done for some people is bring them hurt and pain.  For others trust might be an issue, why trust God if trust is only a negative thing in life?  The more that we understand the God image of the people around us, the more we can develop a sense of purpose in ministry together.

It is hard to define our God image.  I know I have had a hard time this week thinking about that.  We define the things around us by our  job, career, family, social position, income or appearance, so how does God fit into all that.  What are the messages that have brought us to where we are today?  What has influenced you?  How do you define your God?

Tell me about your God…..

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Picture of the itablet

Picture with the new Apple tablet

Okay so maybe this tablet you would need a subscription not only to a wireless carrier but a chiropractor as well!

I can’t wait until the announcement later today about the new islate, itablet, ipad or whatever you wan to call it.

Here are some of my predictions about the Apple event today:

  • 10″ LED screen
  • Camera on both the front  for pictures and iChat.
  • Running iPhone OS 4.0 which should be announced.
  • An optional data plan, through either Verizon or AT&T
  • The ability to run iLife and iWork
  • No built in itunes, but with itunes.com which will be announced today.

I have been reading rumors,  I have an anxiously awaiting this day.  I am also curious about the future for the iphone.  My contract with AT&T was up on January 14th, instead of running out and updating my 2G iphone to 3GS I have been waiting to see if Apple will make the jump over to Verizon — if they do, I have to say that I would switch in a heartbeat.  If they don’t announce it today, I can’t say that I will wait until they decide to either announce it later this year or the next.

What are some of your last minute predictions?

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The “Wally” experience

It’s all a matter of choice.  What do you choose?

I recently found this story on Kirk Weisler’s website and I wanted to share it.

Years ago, my friend, Harvey Mackay, told me a wonderful story about a cab driver that proved this point. He was waiting in line for a ride at the airport. When a cab pulled up, the first thing Harvey noticed was that the taxi was polished to a bright shine. Smartly dressed in a white shirt, black tie, and freshly pressed black slacks, the cab driver jumped out and rounded the car to open the back passenger door for Harvey. He handed my friend a laminated card and said:

‘I’m Wally, your driver. While I’m loading your bags in the trunk I’d like you to read my mission statement.’
Taken aback, Harvey read the card. It said:

Wally’s Mission Statement:
To get my customers to their destination in the quickest,
safest and cheapest way possible in a friendly environment.

This blew Harvey away. Especially when he noticed that the inside of the cab matched the outside. Spotlessly clean!

As he slid behind the wheel, Wally said, ‘Would you like a cup of coffee? I have a thermos of regular and one of decaf.’

My friend said jokingly, ‘No, I’d prefer a soft drink.’

Wally smiled and said, ‘No problem. I have a cooler up front with regular and Diet Coke, water and orange juice.’

Almost stuttering, Harvey said, ‘I’ll take a Diet Coke.’

Handing him his drink, Wally said, ‘If you’d like something to read, I have The Wall Street Journal, Time, Sports Illustrated and USA Today.’

As they were pulling away, Wally handed my friend another laminated card. ‘These are the stations I get and the music they play, if you’d like to listen to the radio.’

And as if that weren’t enough, Wally told Harvey that he had the air conditioning on and asked if the temperature was comfortable for him. Then he advised Harvey of the best route to his destination for that time of day. He also let him know that he’d be happy to chat and tell him about some of the sights or, if Harvey preferred, to leave him with his own thoughts.

‘Tell me, Wally,’ my amazed friend asked the driver, ‘have you always served customers like this?’   Wally smiled into the rearview mirror. ‘No, not always. In fact, it’s only been in the last two years. My first five years driving, I spent most of my time complaining like all the rest of the cabbies do. Then I heard the personal growth guru, Wayne Dyer, on the radio one day.

He had just written a book called You’ll See It When You Believe It. Dyer said that if you get up in the morning expecting to have a bad day, you’ll rarely disappoint yourself. He said, ‘Stop complaining! Differentiate yourself from your competition. Don’t be a duck. Be an eagle. Ducks quack and complain. Eagles soar above the crowd.”

‘That hit me right between the eyes,’ said Wally. ‘Dyer was really talking about me. I was always quacking and complaining, so I decided to change my attitude and become an eagle. I looked around at the other cabs and their drivers. The cabs were dirty, the drivers were unfriendly, and the customers were unhappy. So I decided to make some changes. I put in a few at a time. When my customers responded well, I did more.’

‘I take it that has paid off for you,’ Harvey said.

‘It sure has,’ Wally replied. ‘My first year as an eagle, I doubled my income from the previous year. This year I’ll probably quadruple it. You were lucky to get me today. I don’t sit at cabstands anymore. My customers call me for appointments on my cell phone or leave a message on my answering machine. If I can’t pick them up myself, I get a reliable cabbie friend to do it and I take a piece of the action.’

Wally was phenomenal. He was running a limo service out of a Yellow Cab. I’ve probably told that story to more than fifty cab drivers over the years, and only two took the idea and ran with it. Whenever I go to their cities, I give them a call. The rest of the drivers quacked like ducks and told me all the reasons they couldn’t do any of what I was suggesting.

Wally the Cab Driver made a different choice. He decided to stop quacking like ducks and start soaring like eagles.

Customers love riding in Walter’s cab. His cab ride hits their emotions, and emotions are something that no competitor can copy.

What does it cost the cab driver to offer such treats to his riders? Close to $5,000 a year. What does he get for his $5,000? He makes $12,000-$14,000 extra a year in tips.  Just for being courteous and offering a few snacks and the morning paper.

What makes him unique? This cabby thinks differently. He stopped thinking like every other cab driver in town, and discovered what it would take to turn his boring, mundane occupation into an experience customers would always remember.

Not with mirrors, magic or miracles. Just by thinking differently.  How do you think differently?

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Lost Eleven

The start of the final season of Lost.  I am a big Lost fan since the beginning.  In seminary we would host Lost parties to watch the show together and then stay up until the wee hours of the morning talking about Lost and looking up theories about the show.

Being the last season of Lost there are lots of questions that need to be answered.  Over the next eleven days I will post eleven questions that I want answered before the series is over.

11.  What is up with the time travel?

FARADAY: The Island… Think of the Island like a record spinning on a turntable… only now, that record is skipping. Whatever Ben Linus did down at the Orchid station… I think… it may have… dislodged us.

MILES: Dislodged us from what?

FARADAY:Time.

(“Because You Left“)

I have thought about time travel before.  The answer to time travel may not make or break the show.  The answer to time travel will not resolve the season five the cliffhanger.  But it is an important part of the show.  Lost  has presented us with various themes over the years and one of the themes is time travel.   This is interesting on so many levels, but in the end it boils down to the question:

Can we change the past?

I have seen several video’s lately that try and piece some of the episodes together in a progressive fashion that make a timeline.  When you look at the videos you try to catch a glimpse of the future and ask: Do we have the ability to change what’s already happened in the future or are we controlled by our fate?

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